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Scientifically Developed Assessment of Essential Qualities to Develop and Sustain Intimate Personal Relationships

The Love Factor Inventory (LFI) is designed to help you learn about yourself by identifying psychological and spiritual strengths and weakness. It is an ideal process to share with a loved one. Taking the Love Factor Inventory together and discussing your responses can be a very enriching experience.

The present assessment tool is based upon constructs related to positive, healthy, and mature aspects of human development. The potential of such a measure is to provide a meaningful context to explore and explain healthy functioning which serves the development of deepening and sustaining close interpersonal relationships.

LFI is about one’s capacity for love. The real depth of your being is tested in everyday life. How you treat and respond to others demonstrates what is in your heart.

Intimacy requires an ability to open like a flower to the inner essence of another person. The inner world of feelings and thoughts provide a pathway to the soul.

The LFI Scales

The scales we use to assess one’s capacity to develop and sustain intimate loving relationships.

Compassion
One’s ability to empathize with another person’s situation based upon a fuller understanding of that person’s reality.
Friendship
One’s capacity to develop mature, meaningful, long-standing, and dependable relationships.
Intimacy
One’s ability to sustain close interpersonal contact.
Male/Female
One’s style of expression between the masculine and feminine aspects of the Self.

Primitive Self
One’s ability to perceive and accept the darker, more primitive parts of the Self.
Psychological Adjustment
One’s level of freedom from debilitating psychological conflicts.
Romantic Love
The degree to which one believes in romantic love and “true” love.

Self-Respect
One’s level of respect for oneself and for others.
Sensitivity
One’s sensitivity to others and ability to grasp subtle changes in others’ moods.
Spirituality
One’s experience of relationship with the Divine and one’s sense of unity with all creation.
Trust
One’s level of trust and faith in life as a positive, purposive experience.

Friendship is a very important aspect in a loving relationship. Too often, people become addicted to the highly charged exciting sensation of lust and romance. These kinds of connections are overly dramatic and very unstable. A foundation of friendship requires a thoughtful, considerate, respectful attitude.

The LFI Assessment

The assessment consists of 124 items (statements). You will be asked to rate each statement from “Absolutely Agree” to “Absolutely Disagree.”

Once you have responded to all items, we suggest you study the information provided in the “Interpretative Guide” section which gives suggestions on how to use your LFI findings, and then view your results. Only those who have purchased and registered can view this material.

It is as simple as that. Your first response is usually the best.

You may wish to come back and retake the LFI to see what progress you are making in your path of awakening. Once you have purchased the LFI and registered, you may come back as many times as you like to retake the LFI and will only be charged 50% of the original purchase price any time you wish to return and retake it.

Your Responses May Reveal This About You

COMPASSION:

Your very high score on the Compassion scale suggests that you tend to be an unusually compassionate person who feels for others.

You appear to be very kind and tender with those closest to you. You seem to understand that life has a greater purpose than just fulfilling your own needs, and therefore, you probably reach out to others Compassion is an expression of love because it truly honors another without trying to change them so you will feel more comfortable.

Your very high Compassion style suggests you are an extremely valuable resource for someone going through a difficult time of personal growth because you have the ability and interest to listen without feeling compelled to solve his/her problems.

Your approach to life appears to be based upon a deeper wisdom that realizes suffering often serves to increase understanding of yourself and others. Because you realize that suffering can ultimately lead to personal growth, you appear to forgive those who have caused you pain.

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The LFI Scales

Compassion

Friendship

Intimacy

Male/Female

Primitive Self

Psychological Adjustment

Romantic Love

Self-Respect

Sensitivity

Spirituality

Trust

The LFI Assessment

Your Responses May Reveal This About You

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